Basic Needs

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Emotional Support & Safety

Talking with Youth about COVID-19

Help Children Cope

Preschool

Common Reactions

  • Fear of being alone, bad dreams
  • Speech difficulties 
  • Loss of bladder/bowel control, constipation, bed-wetting 
  • Change in appetite 
  • Increased temper tantrums, whining, or clinging behaviors

How to Help

  • Patience and tolerance
  • Provide reassurance (verbal and physical)
  • Encourage expression through play, reenactment, story-telling
  • Allow short-term changes in sleep arrangements
  • Plan calming, comforting activities before bedtime
  • Maintain regular family routines
  • Avoid media exposure

Source: National Child Traumatic Stress Network

School Age (6-12 years)

Common Reactions

  • Irritability, whining, aggressive behavior 
  • Clinging, nightmares 
  • Sleep/appetite disturbance 
  • Physical symptoms (headaches, stomachaches)
  • Withdrawal from peers, loss of interest 
  • Competition for parents’ attention 
  • Forgetfulness about chores and new information learned at school

How to Help

  • Patience, tolerance, and reassurance
  • Play sessions and staying in touch with friends through telephone and Internet
  • Regular exercise and stretching
  • Engage in educational activities (workbooks, educational games)
  • Participate in structured household chores
  • Set gentle but firm limits
  • Discuss the current outbreak and encourage questions. Include what is being done in the family and community
  • Encourage expression through play and conversation
  • Help family create ideas for enhancing health promotion behaviors and maintaining family routines
  • Limit media exposure, talking about what they have seen/heard including at school
  • Address any stigma or discrimination occurring and clarify misinformation

Source: National Child Traumatic Stress Network

Adolescent (13-18 years)

Common Reactions

  • Physical symptoms (headaches, rashes, etc.)
  • Sleep/appetite disturbance
  • Agitation or decrease in energy, apathy
  • Ignoring health promotion behaviors
  • Isolating from peers and loved ones
  • Concerns about stigma and injustices
  • Avoiding/cutting school

How to Help

  • Patience, tolerance, and reassurance
  • Encourage continuation of routines
  • Encourage discussion of outbreak experience with peers, family (but do not force)
  • Stay in touch with friends through telephone, Internet, video games
  • Participate in family routines, including chores, supporting younger siblings, and planning strategies to enhance health promotion behaviors
  • Limit media exposure, talking about what they have seen/heard including at school
  • Discuss and address stigma, prejudice and potential injustices occurring during outbreak

Source:  National Child Traumatic Stress Network

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