Learn the Signs

Children who have been abused may display a wide variety of emotional, behavioral, or physical signs and symptoms.  And, sometimes they may not display any symptoms at all.

What is most important is that if you notice changes in a child that you let them know you are concerned, want to help, and that they can come to you for anything and you will not be upset. 

The signs below do not necessarily mean abuse is happening, but can serve as a guide to understanding an abused child’s behavior.

BEHAVIORAL SIGNS
  • Acting withdrawn or detached
  • Acting out at home, school, or in social settings
  • Excessive or unusual clinginess
  • Sudden mood swings
  • Self-injury
  • Changes in eating patterns
  • Running away 
  • Knowledge of sexual activity more extensive than expected for their stage of development
  • Alludes to secret knowledge
EMOTIONAL SIGNS
  • Fear of being alone
  • Fear of going to a certain place or visiting a certain people
  • Trouble regulating emotions
  • Easily startled



PHYSICAL SIGNS
  • Bruises, cuts, bleeding, welts, burn marks
  • Trouble sitting, standing, or stiff/forced movements
  • Stained, torn, bloody clothes and/or undergarments
  • Trouble eating or drinking
  • Nightmares
  • Bedwetting and/or thumb-sucking at an age beyond developmentally expected
  • Presence of a sexually transmitted disease or pregnancy
  • Frequent headaches or other pain
  • Money, expensive items, clothing, or gifts without financial means or reason
RELATIONSHIP SIGNS

An adult or older teen...

  • Gives child excessive time or attention
  • Tries to spend time alone with child
  • Asks child to keep secrets
  • Gives gifts or special privileges
  • Has poor boundaries (physical, verbal, or online)

These are signs you may think of as 'grooming.'

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